Writings And Sayings Doesn't Matter

I was searching for some article, when an Aamir Khan article caught my attention. He wrote about the caste discrimination prevailing in the society. No doubt he is a good orator and a nice writer but the question that is still stuck in my mind is this really making any change?
I won't comment on anyone but try and make things more clear. Many of us follow the show regularly and like the way Aamir supports causes. We support him too and curse other people who indulge in wrong practices but when we are in the same situation do we even think twice about getting into the same?


Like let's take casteism as an issue, we as kids were always taught we all are one. Infact we used to stand in the school assembly and say it out loud that we are all one but did we ever really mean it then or even now? What happens when your own kid says “I love driving so I want to be driver” or “I love that girl/guy”. Many of our parents don't stand by their kids because they always think about what the society will think.The first thought in their mind is what will others have to say about this? We won't be able to face the society. We are brahimns(because I was taught I belong to brahimn caste), how can our girl or boy marry someone from another caste and casteism doesn’t stop here only, it's all over the society. No offense but why are we having reserved categories? Why are we in the first place differentiating people on the basis of caste, be it SC/ST or General? What's the need? It may be the case that (as our legislature has termed) a person belonging to the “SC/ST” caste is able to earn a respectable salary whereas a person falling in the General category isn’t able to afford two square meals in a day.


But no one really has ever given a thought to it. Everyone is busy in the hustle bustle of their lives.They don't want to make a change and even if someone tries, not many people bother and the fire of change is doused even before it is ignited properly. I know some dubious people who act really concerned, like they understand our perceptions but when the situation is in their hand and they can make use of it, they are complete hypocrites. For example if you ask them that why their son can't marry a girl from some other caste, they start comparing their status with them and will question you how you can survive with a person who has a living standard that doesn't match with yours. You might to no avail argue that inter-caste adjustments are possible.I mean please think hattke.Why can you judge someone on the basis of their caste or religion?


In India we see people are preferred for a job if they are from some so called lower caste. How can people be assigned jobs on the basis of their caste? Every Human being is the same.Why don’t we just learn something from the animals? The dogs have never had this casteism thing even a german shepherd is a dog and a street dog is a dog. Why do we have to divide ourselves? Why not make an effort to think for a second with this perspective that we all are humans. Why not make a change?


Infact I am even not contributing anything much to it, because just wrting up my thoughts here won't make a difference..Even Aamir Khan can’t help much, he will be there on the sets talking to us through T.V or news papers and it will be in our discussions for the next few days and then things would get back to be the same.So the difference can be made when you just sit for a while and think about it. Give it a thought because until unless you don't stop yourself for a while and think, nothing’s going to change.

Right or Wrong!!

After A long Tiring Day i decided to take a long walk before going back to home!!It was tiring day and i was feeling dizzy but something was going in my mind that was taking my whole attention away from my sleepy head!!!Was i Right Or Wrong!!
I had Viva and i was prepared for that fully and mam was having good impression so she didnt  pointed my flaws even!!but she did on the same file my friend was having!!was i wrong somewhere??
ah!! this right and wrong are the biggest two confusions that lead us to somewhere inbetween of big problems i guess!!there are always many moments when we are stuck in between right and wrong!!and again mess!!
At teh age of 6 studying hard was right as per my thoughts and at the age of 15 the whole education system aws wrong for me!!Preception changes as we grow but this affect us alot nad our surroundings!!Still in the end i m confused whether i am writing right or Wrong!!

Entry As Senior!!

Entry As A Senior!!!
August- new session for colleges begin..Being a fresher on august 2 i was very excited to see my college life..to meet new friends..and a new life was waiting for me to begin...And just a night before my first day my dad called  me and gave ,e few instructions like dear don't mess with seniors ,they will rag you...don't question them back as you do!!!and i was in horror to hear those words from my dad!!!
anyhow that night passed and next day i went to colg. my first day!!!
The whole day passed and there was nobody in colg. except my bus mates who were ragging my friends!!! few days passed and the day came when few seniors came to us to ask for our introduction!!They entered our class and locked the door!!!But before they locked they asked everyone for their convience for introduction!! some Girls left but we sat back there to see what They can do!!
After the half class was empty..they started with their ragging!!They asked me to give my introduction..And i was prepared to answer them back by asking them to introduce themselves first cuz i dnt introduce myself to strangers!!and they replied very calmly that they will introduce themselves when 10 of us will introduce ourselves!!and introductions began and surprisingly after 10th intro they themselves stoppes the next girl and gave their intro to us!!they sang and danced!!and then there was no senior and no junior !! we all were just new friends!!They guided us all the way from first sem to second!!they played with us,gave us ideas for bunking but do gave us the honour of being their Junior!!!And then i realised Being a Friend is better than being a Senior!!
Now After 1 month and 2 days probably i'll be Senior No!! I'll Be a Friend To them!!!

A Walk

A walk that i took with my mommy

my first walk..

lil tiny steps and crawling ahead!!!

A walk that i took with my daddy

my second walk ...

running behind him to catch his finger..

A walk that i took with my didi

adolescence walk..

slowing her steps to make it long

A walk that i took with my friends

my final walk..

scribbing my way to life..

And the last walk that i have to walk alone..

A walk that can never end!!!

A walk that will remain with me till my end...

My First Walk!!!!!

iPhone 4 hype

Next person sitting to you in train or in local bus is having phone..technology is everywhere..and we have made it the hype!!!our hype have created platform for all companies to fight for creating  best operating system..
sitting in library and preparing for technical presentation i realised that evolution of technology is moving as fast as the earth is spinning...in late 1990's when there was just 1 easy to use operating system exist..when windows have it's best place in the field of OS...nowadays is lacking behind by the iOS of apple..Launch of apple iphone 4 have burnt the market value of windows phone 7...no doubt,windows phone 7 is giving us the best user interface as Apple..but Teens still agree with the fact that "If you don't have an iphone ,You don't have an iPHONE..."
Smartphones and it's best OS have replaced laptops and tablets.. Acc. to technodaily over 50% of teenagers use iPhones..this is because they need the best Os,best gaming features,best apps. and the luxury to use an iPhone...everytime i search i find taht iOs is best OS among all and that make me feel more curious to use an iPhone...iOS is providing u with more that 200000 apps...Acc. to chip Angry bird the game launched with iPhone is rated to be 5 out of 5...
So, guys now it shud be Get a iPhone Not idea..

"IIT sets her life dude"

May.24.2011-IIT results are out...i felt as if i have skipped my heart beat..I was terrified..i asked my mum and jump to take the press release from my father's hand..
"Sumedha made it happen..FIIT-JEE's 24 student are in first 100."it reads..I took out my phone n dialed a number.."hii bro,IIt results are out go n chck out dude"..
n reply was "i didnt cleared it anku"he replied.it was my cousin's result but still it made me feel as if it is 1 year back when IIt results were out and inspite of knowing the fact that i won't be able to clear it..i was praying hard for miracle to happen..but Miracles never happen if you don't put your efforts..and i didnt cleared IIT..That night i cried alot and it seems as if everything is over..and the feeling that surrounded me that night was same afresh when my cousin's result was out..BUT.....
Had we ever thought of the fact that why ,when we choose non medical stream we try hard to clear IIT or AIEEE..why not we lay stress on the fact that what we are learning we should be aware of each and every aspect of it ..why not we give time to our innovations..Why IIT is d world's best institution for engg. Why not other's??
why can't a student learning in some private colg. can get a package of 14 lakhs ..Education is not about getting a good job..it is about generating ideas...
ideas that can prosper..that can lead and create something for us...i heard some students saying" IIT clear ho gyi yar uski now he have to just sit and count"...i wish i could have told them then dear it's not about just sitting and counting they too have to work hard there..they have to spend 14 -18 hours to learn.. they are also human minds...IItians are just focused..It's not about the fact that they are in IIT..it's about the fact that they wanna learn they wanna work..How does it matter from which institute you are doing Engg. ..The only thing matters how are you doing engg...sitting in an IIt and doing nothing won't give them a 14 lakh package..they have to work again hard and score well as a normal student have to do it in a school..the only diff. lies in school, teacher used to give us ideas and here , you have to generate and work upon them on your own..companies don't wait for an IITian untill unless they are the best...
Bill Gates was not from IIT...He is father of microsoft..and he was a normal average student..I never forget my friend's conversation with me who told me "Bill gates made a statement in one of it's conferences that i failed in every exam and my friend topped in every exam..today he is the EMPLOYEE of MICROSOFT and I M THE OWNER.."
GOOGLE -THE BEST SEARCH ENGINE ,was outcome of the innovating minds of larry page and sergey brin who were doing Ph.d from some college and not from IIT..It was their brain who made them discover google not their college...
So saying IIT gives you better lifestyle is lame..it's always you who makes your life better..:)

"Friends"

Friends-it's not the tv show..I am writing about my friends..friends are the best part of everybody's life...They make you learn,,make you laugh,,make you know things,,make you cry..n console you with their stupid ideas,,n strange part is you really work on their stupid ideas..friends-besties(chuddy buddies),acquaintances,college friends,,school friends..
talkin of my besties i m having 3 idiots-deepu ,mota n hitler...strange names na i kno but dey deserve to be named so..Every time i had confusion in my mind,,they make it more complicated n i stupidly always believe them...They are the best part of my life..motu is always there for me..i still remember our 2nd class when we used to fite like hell because of marks...n now he don't fite with me n just listen what i've to say..deeu she's my jaan..she make me understand things..she always know what i want n feel..n hitler she's a lil ms.busy.. but sometimes it hurt's to realise that i m in kinda world where everything is so materialistic...
College friends(Ak47,Ayg,Zero cm)-though after a very long time i had made friends who are not kiddo like me..they all kno what ,when n how to do things..i seriously feel i need to know the world n to grow up now..n ak47 really help me everytime i make this resolution to grow up..which is really not possible in my case..Ayg is always there when ak fails to make me understand things going around...n zero cm knows it's impossible to make me understand so she just stay there n laugh ,,,
Different people,different thoughts but still they are my friends but friends always don't know what you really are..I just hope ak47 ,ayg ,zero cm will make my resolution possible....n motu ,deepu will understand that change is necessary in me now..